Rachel decided it was time. She was ready to hold “Rosie” the Tarantula that lives at the Butterfly Pavilion in Westminster, Colorado. They have dozens of Rosies to swap in and out throughout a typical day and this Rosie was presumed to be about 10 years old.
I put my three younger children into public school for the last 7 weeks of school as I have been taking a “Nursing Assistant” course for Rachel. Both school and the course ended on the same day and I’m catching up on work. I need to apply for and pass the state exam, hopefully I will get an appointment quickly.
Almost a month ago I posted a request asking folks to send musical birthday cards for Rachel’s 15th birthday. Our family has experienced the power of social media and the internet. Last fall I posted a “Go Fund Me” seeking donations to help me purchase a wheelchair van as Batten Disease is taking Rachel’s ability to walk. I was able to buy “Cartman” the low mileage wheelchair van at a very low price within a few weeks. People are incredibly generous and kind.
I am pretty sure this video was taken at summer school in 2010. Massachusetts Basksetball State Championship Coach and Special Education Teacher, Liz Londergan took the time to show my blind daughter Rachel how to shoot hoops and Rachel sunk one!
Last night Rachel and other students at Fletcher Miller School were honored by having their art featured in a show in the Corner Gallery at the Lakewood Cultural Center. I have a lot of respect for her art teacher, Jenni, as you really have to think outside of the box to teach a blind person to create art beyond finger paints, wikki sticks and tactile stickers. I’m really proud of both Rachel and her teacher and going to the show was a very sunny moment for me. I tried to take her picture with her art and her certificate but she, much like her mother, was a bit of a shit about it. LOL. We also took a look (those of us that can see) at an artist, Chris Kreig, who had a really cool “BIG” exhibit, I put in a couple of his pieces with Julie posing at the bottom.
I’ve asked my kiddos to write today about what they are thankful for. This is a common theme in America in November that I think is total crap. Many of us are selfish and take life and health and love for granted throughout the year. Boston and London realized last night that there are website statistics which compare their posts in views and comments. They asked me to assign them a topic which will hopefully get them the most post views so I had them jump on the “Thankful for” posts. I was thankful earlier today for having the common sense to record this video on our make a wish trip back in 2009. Watching it feels like I am being split open and all of the happy is being shopped vac’d out of me but I’m glad to be able to see what my girl was like before this fucking disease activated inside of her.
She really enjoyed the long weekend visit with my Mom. I was sure that she was going to be nasty to me this week after my Mom left but I was pleasantly surprised (and wrong). Truthfully I think that is another sign of her cognitive loss. I knew the decline was coming, it is always coming and coming and coming. Her ability to walk is nearly non-existent but I was born to be somewhat of a “brick shithouse” so I have no problem maneuvering her. The order for a hoyer lift is in as well as a new air mattress and an inflatable bed bath for her hair.